Archive for January, 2010

Money & Love in 2010

Monday, January 4th, 2010

Welcome to 2010! A new year, a new beginning, a new opportunity to let go of old patterns and behaviors and beliefs that no longer serve you and open up to a new, authentic, way of living.

2009 was for most people a very challenging year, both personally and professionally. In my role as an Intuitive Consultant, the two biggest issues clients ask about are love and money. Are you finding your relationships shifting and changing? Are you facing concerns about finances? What can you do to facilitate your way through these shifts and concerns?

Life is about change. If you aren’t changing, you’re remaining stagnant. Our relationships often reflect the changes we go through. Some relationships can change and grow with us, and some relationships we grow out of. Where are you holding on to old relationships that no longer support who you have become? Are you still in relationships that do not give you the space and support to reach for the unlimited possibilities that exist for you? Are you keeping yourself small to fit into your current relationship? As you change, doesn’t it seem appropriate that your relationships change, as well? This holds true for all our relationships – family, friends, and lovers. Discover who you are, how you want relationship to make you feel, where you will compromise and what is simply NOT negotiable, what your hopes and dreams are, and then look carefully to see if your relationships support all of who you are at this moment.

If your major concern is about money, look at where you are creating limitation. I personally know people who are doing quite well, even in this economy. Why? They are allowing themselves to “course correct” with the way they earn income. Rather than trying to do the same thing, and getting upset that it isn’t working, they are looking at what the market needs, what people ARE spending money on, and altering the way they do business to fit what the market needs.

Also, become more conscious about your spending. Where is your money going? Are you holding so tightly to what you have that nothing is going out, which also means nothing can find its way in? Or are you spending unconsciously, having no idea where your money is going. I had one client who came in a while ago, moaning about how he so wanted to take my previous Reiki I class, but just didn’t have the money. We looked at where his money had gone, and he was shocked to discover how it had been spent. He realized that with a little consciousness, he could have easily afforded the class without denying himself a dinner out, a movie, or meeting friends at a bar. Be conscious about where your money is being spent, and make sure it’s being spent on that which you consider truly worthwhile in the long run, not just for the moment.

If you need assistance gaining clarity on either of these issues – money and love – perhaps it’s time to schedule a session with me!